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A Hmmm kind of Dilemma

June 15, 2010

M has the flu. He’s been sick the past few days.

Now, since Friday, I’ve been the one to text him first during the day, and he hasn’t been that communicative. That’s fine, he’s not well and I understand.

However I do want to get to a point where I let him contact me first. This is for two reasons, both necessary to get to the next stage:

1. To let him pursue me, which is a necessary component for men, and prove to me he’s into me. They love the chase

2. To prove to myself I can let him pursue me without freaking out and trust that he’ll be there.

I thought about starting this today, but herein lies The Dilemma: He is sick and his first thought may not be to text me. Ok fine. But do I text him? If I do, he may get the wrong impression that I’m trying to be the pursuer again. But if I don’t, he may think I don’t care about how he’s doing.


Am I over thinking it? I’m over thinking it. Argh. I hate thinking.

Solution? I have no freakin’ idea.

Update: I texted him an easy “Hey, how are you feeling today?”

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